Anmol Singh-Psychologist & Counselor, Chandigarh |
Today’s youth is facing
& grappling with an issue “the modern love”. Almost everyone desires and is in search of
meeting someone special to love, care & respect and who is loyal to him/her
but the struggle is real. It is a tough task to find this someone because there
are lot of other things to be taken care of in today’s fast paced life. There
is no denying the fact that every young is bound to experience this struggle in
his/her life but eventually after a lot of trials and failed attempts; the modern
time individual finally settles with their better half.
The basic concept
of a relationship has changed. You really need to understand is that your
self-esteem, your life goals, your family, your values, your smile, your peace
of mind and you as unique identity is important. Self-love, self-care is the
need of the hour. Never ever sacrifice these for those who simply can’t afford
it. One must know what is right and what is wrong. A well-mannered, educated,
respectful, lively, at peace in mind and one who is loving at heart is always a
better choice than anyone having no goals, no mannerism, no way of talking and
who just owns things, no matter how great they look. Rise above materialism,
outer beauty, worldly possessions, and irrelevant followers. Instead look deep
within a person, love their purity, their lovely gestures, their genuineness
and kindness and truly one day you shall find what you are looking for.
to be contd....
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