Anger is an expression of one’s
annoyance, irritation, displeasure, resentment to provocations. Untamed/uncontrolled
anger damages relationships, friendships and families due to one’s frequent
verbal or physical outbursts. It affects the behavior of one’s children who are
often witness to angry outbursts. Road rage, domestic violence, child abuse,
physical assault and even murder are consequences of mismanaged anger. Once one realizes
about his/her overblown, misdirected and unwarranted response, it leads to
guilt, shame, embarrassment, remorse, loss of peace of mind and damage to self
esteem. It can cost you your health. Buddha
says “ you will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your
anger”.
Think before you speak/act, first calm yourself then express your disenchantment, do not keep grudge, do not be critical in your response, regular exercise/relaxation techniques e.g., yoga, deep breathing, meditation, hobbies like listening to soothing music, reading books and adopting "take it easy approach" are some of the ways to manage anger.
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