Saturday, June 29, 2019

Beware & Alarmed -Depressive state of mind


A state of mind - Feeling low due to persistent sadness and loss of interest affecting personal, social and occupational life - is symptomatic of depression. The person is engulfed with hopelessness, develops pessimistic approach towards life, either experiences insomnia or oversleeps, suffers from feeling of guilt, gain/loss of appetite & body weight and is irritated/angry all the time, it is time to seek professional advice.

The support group (family members/friends/well wishers/colleagues) in case you observe that the person you love/concerned about:-     
1.    Loses interest in activities he/she once enjoyed.
2.    Having problem with sleep (Insomnia or oversleep)
3.    Exhibits low energy (Tiredness)
4.    Found sluggish/irritated/agitated all the time (Anxiety)
5.    Has difficulty in concentrating
6.    Change in appetite/ body weight (Increased craving for food or poor appetite)/(body weight gain/body weight loss)
7.    Exhibits feeling of hopelessness & worthless (Guilt)
8.    Expresses frequent thoughts of ending life (suicide)
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Sunday, June 23, 2019

Time to save your relationship.



Time to save your relationship.

The personality, thoughts & beliefs of a partner, unfulfilled needs, and break in communication determines the state of mind and that in turn determines the actual state of relationship. The mind dominated by chaos, confusion, fear & hatred, a kind of negative thinking, makes one hurt partner’s esteem involuntarily inviting equally negative response that leads to developing brittle & toxic relationship over the time.

Generally we often suppress feelings to navigate through confrontational situation and maintain semblance for some time till one’s patience yields. Evoke, engage, unlock your feelings and converse with partner about the state of personal relationship in order to address the huge amount of hidden grief and resolve the issues. 

Critical thinking helps one contemplate, understand & navigate the reality, immensely important for how we act/react in relationship. Get into other’s shoes (role reversal) to understand, realize what made him/her respond the way that hurt you. The insight will help you start putting thoughts of rebuilding a healthy relationship in your mind. Doing so will start you on the road to turning those thoughts of good relationship into real.

Thursday, June 20, 2019

A perspective


A perspective

Love, respect and commitment for each other are the prerequisites to nurture and maintain a healthy flourishing relationship for a happy life. All too often, instead of accepting own failings one conveniently blames the other thereby leading to deterioration of warmth in relationship. Growing up is lots of fun and thrill. The fear of the prospect of losing own safety net and comfort zone holds back one from experimenting. There are two types of fear-ones that turns into realty and the ones that remain in the virtual space of mind. Either way, right choice shapes one’s future.

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Wednesday, June 19, 2019

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Contact us in Chandigarh for CDT session.....contect at 09872880634.... The Psychosomatic Effects (Effects On The Body) Of Fear .. The human being is psychosomatic by nature – what that means is that our health is deeply influenced by our behavior, thoughts, emotions & social relationships. Therefore, in order to experience good health, we should care for our life style, our mental, sentimental, emotional & relational world, as well as our communication. Fear is bad for our health. It manifests itself in the form of anger & promotes coronary diseases. Fear suppressed for a long time ends up producing diseases such as cancer. Apart from cancer & heart attacks, there are other illnesses brought on by fear: addictions, anxiety, arthritis, asthma, irritability, nervous breakdowns, memory loss, gastritis, back pains, baldness, diarrhea, sciatica, crying attacks, alcoholism, constipation, hypertension, cystitis (bladder inflammation), vomiting, palpitations, digestive disorders, ulcers and migraines.


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Different Types of Anxiety Disorders - by Dr. Serge Gregoire

Anxiety is a common occurrence when a person faces potentially problematic or dangerous situations. It is also felt when a person perceives an external threat. However, chronic and irrational anxiety can lead to a form of anxiety disorder. There are different types of anxiety disorder depending on their causes or triggers.

Generalized anxiety disorder

A person who has this type of anxiety disorder usually experience prolonged anxiety that is often without basis. More accurately, people with generalized anxiety disorders cannot articulate the reason behind their anxiety. This type of anxiety usually last for 6 months & often affect women.  Due to the persistence of the anxiety, people affected with generalized anxiety disorder constantly fret and worry. This results to heart palpitations, insomnia, headaches & dizzy spells.

Specific phobia

Unlike someone with generalized anxiety disorder, a person who has a specific phobia experiences extreme & often irrational fear of a certain situation or object. When exposed to the object or situation they fear, people with specific phobias exhibit signs of intense fear like shaking, shortness of breath, heart palpitations, & nausea. Common specific phobias include fear of heights, enclosed spaces, blood, & animals. The fear a person with phobia feels can be so extreme that he or she may disregard safety just to escape the situation.

Panic disorder

Also, known as Agoraphobia, panic disorders are characterized by recurring panic attacks which are often unexpected. Symptoms are usually shaking, chest pains, dizziness, fear of losing control, & reluctance of being alone. People with panic disorder are aware that their panic is usually unfounded & illogical. This is why they avoid public situations & being alone. A panic attack can be so severe that people may lose control & hurt themselves.

Social phobia

Alternatively called social anxiety, a person with social phobia may exhibit similar symptoms like those of panic disorder especially in social situations. Shaking, dizziness, shortness of breath, & heart palpitations may ensue when a person with social phobia finds his or herself at the center of attention or in the company of many people, regardless whether they are strangers or not.

Obsessive-compulsive disorder

People with obsessive-compulsive disorder experience anxiety caused by a persistent obsession or idea. They tend to avoid experiencing anxiety by resorting to repetitive actions or behaviors that prevent anxiety. For example, a person who is obsessed about cleanliness may experience anxiety at the mere sight of a vase placed slightly off-center. To prevent anxiety, he or she will clean & organize everything compulsively or without reason.

PTSD

Post-traumatic stress disorder may occur after a person experienced a severely traumatic event. He or she may relive the experience in his or her mind which causes stress & anxiety. If a person with PTSD comes into contact with stimuli (any object, person, or situation) that he or she associates with the traumatic event, he or she may literally re-experience the event by crying uncontrollably, panicking, or losing control. Subtle symptoms include insomnia & avoidant behavior. PTSD may manifest itself immediately after the traumatic event or even years after.

The good news is that there is hope. It is possible to recover from anxiety (2, 3). The primary source of anxiety is the imbalance in the gut function.  Techniques & methods that are used to help a person cope with a certain anxiety usually target not only the management of symptoms but coping mechanisms when exposed to triggers. Only after thorough diagnosis can treatment & recovery for anxiety disorders really commence.



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Monday, June 17, 2019

Facing emotional turmoil



One’s interaction with some people, whom one meets and uncertainties associated with challenging situations one is in, makes one feel uneasy, incompetent, embarrassed, apprehensive, afraid, nervous, sad, unhappy & worried. The negative energy associated with these emotions leads one to be inwardly drawn and lonely in absence of adequate outside support resulting in mental disorders. One panics in this state of mind because of intense anxiety and gets trapped in the vicious cycle of worries & fear.  One exhibits overwhelming symptoms like trembling, short of breath, rapid heartbeat, feeling unwell, suffocation, numbness etc.   Finding oneself in this condition requires temporary distractions by change of focus, calming of mind via meditation/deep breathing/music, avoiding discussion on negative things, distracting one’s mind by doing creative things & physical exercise, connecting with like-minded people in order to release suppressed feelings.

Sunday, June 16, 2019

Facing relationship conflict;


Facing relationship conflict;

A relationship, in the truest sense of the word, means relating to another. An honest relationship is one in which we accept each other as whole individuals, and find a way to share our life experiences together. Know it that there are two things in life that we can never change; the past and other people. Accept & embrace the ideal & the not-so-ideal, without conditions. Generally our belief we have common ground to make seemingly different ideas come together makes us try to fit another person into our predetermined ideal partner. In a relationship, wanting to change other is dishonest. Do not try to change/control the other, you will lose your influence and generate distance that makes partner step outside resulting in disappointment & frustration.

Frustration is a sign of failure in getting what we want and thus our self-esteem & self-confidence are reduced. Frustration is a form of fear or anger, emotions that arise inside us, distract us & even blind us. The negative emotions makes one lose control & dictates one’s response. The expectations (disguised desires) generates a conflict, we feel victimized and blame others/situation for our unhappiness and loose our sense of well-being. Our negative perception, attitude & behavior to change, influence & control others/situation, is responsible for the mental & emotional pain.

Friday, June 14, 2019



The detachment & disconnect with the real world because of over indulgence with virtual world has made one prone to instant depiction of intense emotions linked to something one feels strongly about that may lead to emotionally debilitating heartbreaks. The result one gets into anxiety mode and in extreme cases even depression. There is need to learn how to channelize & express one’s emotions linked to expectations, rejection, criticism, curiosity, approval etc in an inspiring way rather than irritating & intimidating for the recipient.        

Tuesday, June 11, 2019

Create a purpose to determine your existence.


Create a purpose to determine your existence.





Life is hectic & complicated. Everyone is fighting for time. Create a purpose to determine your existence. Uncertainties make one worry and unhappy.  Realize uncertainty is inevitable, but worrying is optional. Pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional. Experience makes life better not bitter. Experience is a hard teacher, it tests and provides lessons. Struggle and endurance to problems develop inner strength and enhances Mental Strength. Look inside, awaken and gain insight to count your blessings. Be grateful & satisfied with whatever you have achieved to remain motivated. Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear. Keep the faith & drop the fear. Don’t believe your doubts & doubt your beliefs. Life is a mystery to solve, not a problem to resolve.

Sunday, June 9, 2019



Stress, sleepiness, self indulgence, boredom, lack of will and wandering nature of mind are reasons that distract one from maintaining a stable focus. Behavioural therapy is helpful in replacing old behavioural patterns with new ones that are instrumental in releasing & relieving one of internal mind chatter, relaxation of body and alleviate anxiety.   

Saturday, June 8, 2019

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It is quite normal for a child to feel anxious sometimes but display of anxiety & phobia without any substantial/apparent reason is a cause of worry. Increasing expectations in the face of cut throat competition, nuclear family limiting family connections, inadequate social mingling are some of the reasons for a child to develop anxiety disorders that results in devastating effect on his/her academic performance. A child’s frequent complaints before certain tasks like headache, stomach-ache, feeling unwell and physical distress may be symptomatic of anxiety disorders. These children fighting anxiety & depression exhibit sleep problem, radical behavioural change such as withdrawal, loss of interest in activities, aggression, hyperactivity, difficulty in eating, and oppositional defiance. These signs when observed in a child should not be ignored and discussed with a professional. Cognitive behaviour therapy provides favourable outcomes. 

Friday, June 7, 2019

Life comes with insecurities that drives one seek approval and appreciation for one’s actions. It is natural but life needs to move on. One cannot be stuck down with anxiety and fear of missing out as it is detrimental for health. Listen & reflect, reconcile and harmonize different viewpoints to understand reality. Live in the present moment with non judgemental attitude to eliminate build up of stress and lead a joyful life.  Detox your body and mind by disciplining your mind to overcome stress and relax in order to prepare oneself for playing a constructive role in life. Put aside thoughts of past & future, do not judge yourself, be calm & quiet, be aware of your each & every action, observe & learn. Switch focus to things enriching and entertaining to live your dream. Let professional counselling help you in this endeavour. 

Tuesday, June 4, 2019


Responsibilities make one take life seriously and completely forget about self care for revitalizing one’s body & mind. In the process, one fine day one starts feeling mentally, emotionally and physically tired/exhausted. The emotional and physical exhaustion makes one incapable of handling stress, develop low esteem & resentment. The body and mind needs to be rejuvenated consistently while discharging our worldly duties for a joyful life. Do not ignore own personal needs while taking care of others. Pamper yourself, spare time for communion with nature, meditation, naturopathy, opt for regular physical exercise & healthy diet for a break from the reality for sometime in order to relax your mind and clam down your body.     

Monday, June 3, 2019

Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) – for anger management



Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) – for anger management

Everyone experiences anger, fear, worry, sadness and joy. Anger destroys one’s intellect leading to one’s own ruin. One loses control over oneself and in a fit of rage behaves in an irrational/illogical way that harms him/her and others. Fear, failure, loss, threat, insult, assault, cheating, bullying, unhealthy relationship and adverse life-situation are the factors that trigger anger. Think clearly, reasonably, compassionately before an exaggerated impulsive reaction. Self awareness, self control and virtues like love, kindness, patience, humility, forgiveness helps manage one’s anger. A non judgemental conciliatory approach helps to restrain emotional trigger to anger, quietens the mind, restrains flare up of negative energy, deal with complex situation and clear tense atmosphere. Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) helps develop immunity to irritants responsible for the negative emotion anger. Go for professional counselling to rein in your anger. 

Sunday, June 2, 2019

Fragile relationship


Fragile relationship

Meaningful personalised engagement via deep & substantive conversations rather than superfluous talk builds deep bonds, a prerequisite for a happier relationship. Confidence and content in purposeful polite conversation helps know & truly understand each other & establish a deeper connect for a rewarding relationship. On the other hand complicated relationship generates stressful, emotional & mentally exhausting problems and turns into a constant struggle to let go of distasteful things. Emotional management i.e. identifying what is spoiling the relationship, confronting the situation/person and candid discussion to resolve issues quickly is the need of the hour. Bitterness or grudges in a fragile relationship do not affect the recipient as much as they affect the one harbouring them. Letting go of the pain, anger & guilt felt towards this relationship and allowing feelings of love, joy and acceptance by detaching from past issues is a must. Forgiveness is one of the most powerful gifts one can give each other in most fragile relationship.