The kind of thoughts you harbor, in fact, significantly affects your daily relationships with others. If you step into a social gathering, fuming with hate or bitter with cynicism, you drive others away from you. If you step into it bursting with affection for all & bubbling with optimism, you draw others to you. If you notice someone of the opposite sex with disinterest, that person will withdraw his/her own interest in you, if he/she has any. In fact, he/she might even turn disdainful of you. If you show keen interest, however, the person will be flattered & rendered vulnerable to your advances. Everybody enjoys being admired, regardless of whom the admirer is. If you face a person in business & harbor a sympathetic frame of mind towards the person, he/she will instantly “feel” that there is a common bond, & this will hasten &multiply your success with the person. If you face a subordinate & think kindly of him, he will instantly feel that he should strain to please you or show off his ability to you.
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