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Friday, July 31, 2020
Conscious Decision
Conscious Decision
Generally our decisions about life are made by default and we do what most of the people known to us are doing. Normally many options are available to us but we don’t explore them and take conscious decisions. The choices made may also be under pressure by family, peers & society/community at large. But it is important that we ourselves determine what’s right for us and what to do with our lives. It is your life. Take your own decisions. Your divergent choice may threaten those close to you. Parents & grandparents may get confused & defensive, friends may feel abandoned. Losing their support and a feeling of being misunderstood may frustrate you but explaining your point of view & reasons with gentleness, openness, and tolerance remaining calm, persistent & consistent and clear in communication shall win back those who truly love you. They will stand by & support your choices.
A beautiful Journey: Past Life Regression , everyone will love to read. An interesting regression. Will try to write in short. A young, married women, age30 yrs, married, topper in studies...very beautiful... Looks seems combination of beautiful features...only single session done, three lives covered...instant regression.. .1st life. Year 1140...i am a girl, wearing dear skin cloths, age 25 years, living in Gangotri, an ashram, since childhood, as I am an orphan, but most cared by others in ashram. This ashram is having Shiva statue. I have taken diksha. I am a Brahma Chari. We are going kashi for Kashi Vishwanath Darshan with our head of the ashram. I stayed there, then I went to Lumbvini, it is in Nepal. I stayed and did have siddhiya by tapsya. I am a bhikhshuni... I meditate whole day. I see now we all are going to bless a marriage ceremony in patliputra.it is a very big palace. We are blessing the boy, who is to be married. His name is dhritu. I am 35 year old now. When dhritu saw me, he refused to get married to the other girl. A lot of things are happening. We are coming back. His father is standing with us with folded hand. Some one from us is telling something. Regarding marriage, I am too upset to listen these things. We are leaving the patliputra.but I did not accepted dhritu proposal. But I know, I liked the thought of his love for me. I am varying sad. Meri tapsya bhang ho gayi, toot gayi... now I am in kashi sang math. I am 50 years old. I am head. I am sick. Mera dil me khrabi hay. Breathing problem hai. Dhritu is here to take care math and me. He is still unmarried. He devoted his life for me. (.actually dhritu is my life husband.).......then death...lesson learned...duty is important. 2nd life...... .year.1803 I am a beautiful girl in Palestine area. They are calling me malika. I have four brothers, my father is very rich. I am very much pampered. I am very proud, in nature. An Indian man comes to teach me sitar. Now we love each other. Abbas, my elder brother now know this. I am too sad. Abbas killed my sitar teacher. Sitar teacher was in fact dhritu, of last life; he is my present life husband. I am. Going to Paris for change but not happy. Time is passing. I am not ready to come back. Abbas is sad. He takes so much pains, comes to meet me. His wife also comes. Now I understands my brothers love for me, so I am getting married to some one my family choose. A lot of story......................death. Lesson learned............be compassionate. (Two very imp present life people...Abbas, the brother and his son and Ayaa.The mousi in this life. Integrated in this life.) 3rd life i am a girl, 12 year, golden hair, my name is rose. I am on ship with my nanny (caretaker). My mother is dead, so my father is sending me to my grand parents, I am leaving Lahore.my father do some work there. I am growing in beautiful women. I study and good in it. My grandfather is dead. I live with my grand mother and nanny.my house is beautiful. I am happy, I love someone, and he loves me. Actually (you know... he is the same dhritu& sitar teacher). I am going somewhere. It is big building, it is airport. My friend came to airport to see me off. I am upset. I complained about my father to govt. I think he is a spy. Some Budapest regency...Nazi...these thoughts are coming in mind. Oh, I want to tell my father, what I did. Oh ...my father is here. At airport. He is coming. Ahhhhh. He shot me.i am dead. He killed himself. My lover...he is so sad...lesson. Learned.....i should not have taken a hasty decision .one should make proper inquiry, before any conclusion .he was not a wrong man. I am feeling uselessness now.....very long silence.... After PLR: Reorientation and integration.... Very much scared at airport. Chest problems without medical cause. Chest hurts a lot without any reason. Some azeeb sa birth mark on chest. In this time. Present husband......they met at airport. He came to pick her, official work. Not known.to each other.it was love at first site for both. In this life also uska rokaa ho chukka tha.he refused for that rishta. They got married with efforts of Mamaji of her husband. Mamaji was father of dhritu in year.1140. She feels very much connected with Lahore, London and Paris. Four other relations in present life were in other lives. Conclusion....dhritu (1140), sitar teacher (1803), a friend and love (1932)...is same person.... all the time and husband in this life... Dr. Vandana Raghuvanshi, Chandigarh...09872880634
Wednesday, July 29, 2020
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Unpredictability is a way of life in today’s time and it is natural to
face the ups and downs of life. One’s self-belief shall steer him/her
successfully towards goal despite the unprecedented challenges. Be positive, do
not stay in dark (negative) space for long, remain hopeful, give time &
work hard as no goal is unachievable.
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The reality surrounding us provides one an opportunity to have lifetime
experiences which help discover a variety of emotions, some make him/her face a
dilemma and get lost in the whirlpool of life. The emotional highs & lows help
us understand our obscure lives. Get purged of emotional baggage by engaging in
your hobby like passionately reading a book.
Tuesday, July 28, 2020
Psy talk contd......
As the person you’re talking to isn’t in front
of you, social media also gives you a license to criticize or be hurtful
towards others. This makes a lot of difference in expressing your resentment
over some issue or even justifies your point. It may give you time to think
clearly, type and send your message while increasing your vocabulary but it
decreases face to face communication skills. You might lack confidence to speak
or feel utterly shy when you meet people offline. You might even portray
unconsciously, inappropriate gestures, or in rare cases the other person might
feel that you’re fake if you’re not what you seemed to be. This can cause
identity crisis. It creates a skewed self-image. Again, your feelings are
inauthentic. Maybe you’re just trying to be good and look to please them of
your personality or just vice versa, show ignorance if you don’t like them at
first sight. This is often found in using dating applications. It diminishes
understanding and thoughtfulness. While interacting with someone online, people
may possess talking skills, but in real fail to even show their true worth.
This may cause other to stop the interaction hitherto and be disconnected.
Whenever you go out to meet people, you worry about different things like
getting dressed neatly, trying out a new place to meet, being punctual, being
active etc whereas social media facilitates laziness. Our relationships with
people outside are already in jeopardy, it reduces family closeness too.
Social media is unreliable; your data might
get leaked or hacked. It is time consuming; you don’t do anything productive if
you engage for long hours on some random topic. It makes you idle. Your
vacations with friends, family, colleagues may get spoiled if you’re addicted
to use your mobile while travelling, unless you’re clicking pictures. Which of
course, almost more than 50% people use their cells, not brains, pun intended.
One peculiar thing about social media is that it is dynamic, keeps changing
from time to time. These changes are constant and may come in between your
daily rituals. Lastly, it can be dangerous for people when misused for targeted
abuse & harassment. Anyone can bully, name-call, defame, body shame, abuse
& threaten you thus viciously play with your mind. That is why it is
important to keep a check on whatever you’re doing online.
Try to minimise usage of online surfing, restrict
it to work related. Beware of the fraudsters, protect your identity, act smart
& be careful of people whom you talk to. One must plan out the schedule
wisely. Everything in a limit is understandable but excess of anything is bad
even for your mental, physical, emotional, and social well-being. Gain some
insight from successful people. Focus on expanding your ideas online. Keep no
inhibitions. Don’t crave for instant gratification or seek approval by some
random third person. Trust people in real life. Generate curiosity for the
greater good. Find time for your personal grooming, family, your actual
friends, office mates. Keep some time for your recreation. Make up for the time
being wasted. Well enough said. Now as you can see, how social media impacts
our life, I will conclude it and would apologetically like to leave it at your
discretion, to decide what is right and what should be done. See for yourself
as to where you stand in this context and have you found any meaning.





