Human beings have an inherent craving to possess and their intense desire makes them feel helpless. Feeling ignored and unwanted affects one's psyche whereas being appreciated is morale booster.  Donot self-pity instead introspect to find cause and appropriate lasting solution to ongoing internal conflict. Nothing is stable, start working to discover and hone your skills, strength and resilience to counter the manoeuvring by people surrounding you. Experiencing condemnation & intimidation is discomforting but perseverance and hard work always pays off. Win over your inertia, no work however small is disrespectful for a self respecting person. Every person has some skills, use them to sustain life with dignity and never compromise with your values.