One goes about in life planning for the future and then complaining if plans do not materialize. Know nothing is in one’s control. Control is an illusion. Hardship & struggles turn out to be blessings in disguise in case one looks at the brighter side, learns the lesson and starts afresh optimistically. Reflect, build mental strength and reboot personal growth.  Live in the moment, be grateful and feel blessed for whatever you have in life.