Blame game causes
irreparable damage to relationships.
Generally a natural
reaction, a common negative habit, in a conflict is to blame the other. The reason
being we carry & have an image of ourselves as the one who can never do anything
wrong or incorrect and as such is never at fault. We identify with this internal
image completely and are deeply attached to it. The fear of loss or harm to
this internal image, we are deeply in love with, in case we admit our mistakes,
makes a person play the blame game to save face & gain temporary respect,
even if it is at the expense of someone loosing face & being disrespected. This
image, which is so defined in spiritual language, is called reputation in
common language. The Law of Karma, though, does catch up sooner or later with
such a person and with such behavior. Being honest may cause temporary harm to
the internal image or reputation, but one remains safe according to karmic
principles in the long run & the temporary harm, if any, is undone &
respect regained.
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