Love happens naturally and the person envisions a beautiful sincere loving relationship. The connection of two minds & hearts, loving each other & relating to one another and having aligned values is healthy relationship. Two things in life can never be changed; the past and partner, hence trying to change partner is completely dishonest. Compassion, care, will to hear, feeling heard & safe, adapting & meeting half way, laughing away the blues, happy thoughts and positive outlook brings in happiness & bliss, the key to a healthy and secure relationship.