Inspire & cooperate rather than intimidate & dominate must be parent’s mantra while a child grows up. The child must not be forced to develop a psyche that makes him/her live life just pleasing parents and others, seeking approval & support. This psyche inhibits a child from learning own purpose of life and how to live for self & make self happy. These children, despite being successful and independent, later on in life feel a vacuum inside and start questioning self as to why they act as per other’s expectations pushing them into lot of emotional turmoil.