Never do anything unpleasant to your child.

Never do anything unpleasant to your child.

The unpleasant words spoken and rude behaviour exhibited while interacting with children adversely damages/dents their self worth.   Every child is unique and different hence make no comparisons. Show respect and consideration, be careful do not blame. Human experience makes one forget what good you did to him/her but not how one felt. Careless treatment meted out, comparison between siblings and peers at school hurts the belief of a child and conditions his/her brain to believe in the criticism. Interact setting positive expectations it shall boost their self esteem and hence performance.