Being dominant to gain respect is not advisable.
Fearing someone’s dominance is not necessarily the same as respecting him/her. Expectation of
respect is natural to being human. It is normally lack of self-respect in an individual
that a person seeks/demands respect from others through dominance, a form of
the negative energy of fear, in the relationship. Dominance sometimes turns violent in a subtle way,
harming the relationship in a big way. Others giving attention or being
in awe of him/her is mistaken for being respected but the truth is it is impossible to give respect, if at the
back of mind one fears him/her. The ego, an excessive attachment to one's false
image, need to be recognized & no longer nourished instead respect other’s
values, specialties, skills, virtues and powers to make him/her fearless,
confident and capable of giving genuine respect.
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